Now this title could take you in a couple of different directions — lost adventures or the adventures of being lost. I’m going down the path of the latter.
When was the last time you were lost in an adventure? What was your experience of that? Were you frightened or panicked or did your inner ‘role with the punches’ lead you into a memorable adventure?
My husband and I were hiking near Pagosa Springs, Colorado, in the fall. The aspen trees were getting their golden leaves on and the woods were glistening with color. Early one morning, just after sunup, the path we chose led to a small lake with a waterfall. We guessed, based on the distance, that it would only take us about 45 minutes – a short hike. But assured to be quite beautiful. We weren’t equipped for anything lengthy but had a backpack with a couple of bottles of water. There was also enough room to throw in our jackets if we got warm and a hiking map of the area.
Looking at the posted map at the trailhead, and after noting our entrance onto the selected trail, we headed into the woods on our adventure. Meanwhile, we wandered through dense woods that opened into sunny meadows before the trees closed around us again. We savored the mountainous beauty surrounding us, chatted about our adventure, and enjoyed the dewy sparkles accented by the rising sun.
Adventures in Getting Lost
Again, we walked and walked, sure we were following the right path, but after 3 hours of romping in the hills and working up a thirst. We then realized we were nowhere near any lake. There was a pronounced absence of any audible evidence of any nearby stream. Time to pull out the map!
Oh my! We missed our turn! Retracing our tired steps, sun high in the sky by now, with map in hand, I felt a little discouraged. Glad to have someone with me, but discouraged. As I watched the moist dirt path beneath my feet, I came upon a gift. A dampened, yellow, fallen aspen leaf on the earth’s surface with just the right mixture of dew and dust to form a smiley face. A little gift from nature encouraging me amidst my plight of being lost.
Eventually, we arrived at our selected awe-inspiring destination and the talisman discovered in my path encouraged me all the way back to the car. There we could rest our tired feet and head back into civilization to find some nourishing vittles to quell the growling bellies.
The moral to this story – When you’ve lost your way, pause and look around. You just never know what adventure awaits, and you might just find a ‘sign’ to lead you toward your destination.
Continue ReadingLet me say that again, “Can I be your Valentine?” That’s a little upside down from the normal “Will you be my Valentine?” The commercial Valentine’s Day is upon us and I’ve noticed how it all seems to be geared toward someone asking me to be their Valentine. What if we flipped it upside down and instead of asking someone else to be your special person, we offered to be someone’s person?
This holiday we have historically celebrated as romantic expressions between two people. Romantic love is certainly worth celebrating, and I’m all for doing that. But on this day of ‘love’ sharing, it occurs to me that love is love and is shareable regardless of its nature (romantic, playful, giving, helping, and so on). Rather than expecting someone to share their love with me, it seems equally rewarding to offer my love to others. The more love you give, the more you get (so ‘they’ say). Loving is the point, right?
Have you ever noticed how loving something or someone softens what is hard inside? When I share love, my worries fade into the background, my frustrations wither, my anger seems less important, and my critical self-talk turns to acceptance and encouragement. Seems to me we could do this love-sharing any day without a holiday requirement. But hey, if we want to call out a specific day in the year to be aware of it, why not? I’ll play!
Wherever you are in your life, whatever you’re doing, however you feel right this moment, take a moment and send loving thoughts to someone unsuspecting. That might be a road worker, that person getting on your nerves, the plumber who isn’t afraid of a nasty job, or the tried-and-true person who delivers your mail each day. In the meantime, I’ll ask again, can I be your Valentine? In the spirit of this holiday, I’m sending love your way and I’m feeling grateful for the gifts you bring to this world by being who you are.
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Life Gifts
- I send you a warm, relaxing breeze, a comfortable hammock with sounds of water lapping on the shore.
- I send you calm, to remember love and caring.
- I send you a warm, snuggly kitty to comfort your soul and remind you about the power of love.
- I send you wide open spaces big enough for all your dreams to materialize.
- I send you comfort, joy and sustenance through your retirement.
- I send you life rafts for navigating the waters of life.
- Sending you the best of birthday wishes and some special binoculars for you to see all the puddles of goodness that follow you around and support you.
- Sending you nourishing soup for your soul.
- I send you showers of strength as you walk your journey.
- I send you a cuddly blanket of appreciation for the beautiful person you are in this world.
- I send you succulent sweet chocolate kisses and delightfully warm hugs.
- I send you pregnant pauses to remember how much you are loved and cared for.
- I send you relaxing moments filled with love and caring.
- I send you delicious moments filled with rare and marvelous accents that grow your heart.
- I send you showers of confetti filled with sparkling, renewing energy to keep you fresh and succulent.
- I send you contagious child-like giggles and unstoppable smiles.
- I send you a path of petals on which to tread as you navigate life.
- I send you showers of grace and peace.
- I send you joy.
- Sending you friendship to warm your heart and knowledge that you’re loved.
- I send you quiet fields of lavender to enjoy soft, quiet moments.
- Sending you bright colored paint for your life canvas.
- I send you whimsical moments that make you giggle out loud, whether or not you’re around people.
- I send you light energy to charge your healthy cells and create health.
- I send you fresh strawberries to enjoy in a mild, sunny meadow upon a lush spring mountain.
- Sending you a bubble full of love and healing, to hold you and your heart.
- I send you clocks that indicate there is plenty of time.
- Sending you joy and glee in celebration of your accomplishment.
- I send you billowing bubbles of joy.
- I send you giggles and chortles to accent all the moments of your day.
- I send you fresh, crisp apple bites of life to bite into everyday.
- Sending you peace and beauty, like the glassy stillness of a lake before the breeze’s caress stirs things up.
- I send you fruit-full surprises in your journey.
- Sending you a magical cool sheet to snuggle in and feel safe.
- I send you calm and gentle breezes wafting love and joy around you.
- I send you honor and respect as you navigate this wave in your life.
- Sending you patience while your body heals.
- I send you focus as you practice setting up new routines to support your engagement with your true self.
- I send you lush green mountain meadows splattered with wildflowers for you to rest and rejuvenate your soul.
- Sending you flashlights for exploring your dark places.
- Sending you warmth and caring.
- I send you warm blankets to snuggle with as you sip warm tea and warm up your cold body.
- I send you large bundles of gratitude for being who you are, and for being connected with me.
- I send you delicious moments to remove clutter from your life.
- I send you inspiration to put thoughts on paper.
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