I hate when that happens! How many times have you said this to yourself or out loud? It’s pretty easy for us to jump on the hate bandwagon, and it is a thunderously loud emotion. Hate easily pops up in topics such as politics, social issues, or even personal attacks. What is the possibility that when we feel hate, there are deeper awarenesses at work?
Continue ReadingI’m playing with the idea of conscious receiving today. Nice job! Congratulations! You look dapper today. I love you. I appreciate your helping me with this. You are amazing, and I’m so glad we are spending time together.
What’s spinning around in your consciousness when someone says these things to you? Do you grasp for a quick retort, feeling slightly uncomfortable and not sure what to say in response? I’m familiar with that one. Why do we sputter and wriggle around when someone notices and recognizes us with these gifts?
Continue ReadingOoooh, sigh, gasp, eye-roll: can you sense that irked feeling dropping in for a visit? You know it, but perhaps it’s not a feeling you quickly put your finger on. The person sitting next to you is munching on something crispy, and that just keeps nagging you away from your focus stream. Maybe one more interruption is going to push you over the edge. Or here’s a good one: that mosquito keeps buzzing around your ear, and just won’t buzz off! These little, early-stage irritations leave you feeling irked!
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Irked or annoyed?It’s rare for people to talk about feeling jaded. Have you ever asked someone how they feel, and the response is ‘jaded?’ It’s a feeling rarely talked about. So, I’m diving in. If you were to describe what you mean when you say, ‘I’m feeling jaded,’ how would you describe it?
Continue ReadingHow do you manage when life says, “Stop?!” The dreams and aspirations I had for 2025 were all on track for the first half of the year. Suddenly, though, in the last half of the year, life screamed stop! Nothing I planned for stayed on track, and a new sort of path demanded my attention. What’s a person to do?
Continue Reading‘You are here: I’m there with you’ is a phrase I’ve coined in my personal journey around caregiving for an aging parent. It’s easy when caring for a loved one with memory loss to get frustrated with the changes we see and experience. In my personal experience, the dad I used to know and remember shifts into someone different. Some days he seems like a completely different person. Oi! What’s a person to do with that?
Continue ReadingHave you felt Knotted?
Knotted is a word I’ve rarely used to describe an emotion, but I have certainly felt it. This is a feeling probably more often used to describe a physical feeling as it relates to knotted or cramping muscles. Who here has never felt a physical cramp? Ouch! On the emotion side of things, who here has ever felt knots in their stomach? Oh! Is that what that is? Now, what’s it all about?
Continue ReadingNeeding to Try Again
“You’re okay; try again.” Her dad encouraged her to get up off the ground she tumbled to while trying to ride her bike without training wheels. Sound familiar? When you started riding your bike, how many times did you try before you got the hang of it? Your heart was super motivated, but the first few times you tried, you went tumbling off the bike, learned how hard the ground was, and didn’t enjoy the result. What’s a person to do?
Continue ReadingI’m feeling lethargic. Let’s see… Am I experiencing overload? (Perhaps.) Maybe I’m avoiding feelings I don’t want to feel. (I have felt that before, but that doesn’t seem to be it today.) On the mind-body connection front, I’ve negligent on the hydration front. (This could be a factor.) Am I separated from my purpose or joy? (Recently, life called me to redirect my energy. Meaning is still present in my life.) Or, is this lethargy a healthy response to life’s demands? (Maybe.)
Continue ReadingIs it a thorn or a rose? When you see the flower we call roses, what do you see? Do you see one or the other, the rose or the thorn, or do you see the beauty of both? What do roses teach us about ourselves?
When I see roses, I see the rose part first. The beauty is what I see first. I smell its inviting fragrance, and I see tender delicate petals and experience the color bursting forth from its bud. I want to experience the flower fully, so I pull it toward my nose and suddenly realize my touch requires some deliberate, careful handling. As the rose produces its sharp barb to protect itself, I too want to protect my fingers from the rose’s pointed thorns. Would that rose be what it is without either its thorns or its magnificent bud?
Continue ReadingDo you ever wake up feeling miserable? Maybe life happens, and you sink into a miserable abyss without realizing it. When miserable pays you a visit, are you aware? Do you notice and pay attention to what’s going on?
When I feel miserable, I often get a healthy dose of despair to accompany my experiences. Misery loves company, right? I’ve learned something about it, though. Misery can mean that something important is out of alignment. Perhaps a personal value or boundary is screaming for attention. Maybe it’s an emotion that wants us to pay attention to something we care about. Did you ever push something to the bottom of your list so many times it felt like a monster instead of something you can whip out in a short block of time?
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Life Gifts
- I send you fresh strawberries to enjoy in a mild, sunny meadow upon a lush spring mountain.
- I send you giggles and chortles to accent all the moments of your day.
- I send you peaces to resolve the conflicts you’re experiencing right now.
- I send you a path of petals on which to tread as you navigate life.
- I send you glorious freedom to move your body and experience joy.
- I send you comfort, joy and sustenance through your retirement.
- Sending you patience while your body heals.
- Sending you love and caring.
- I send you virtual blankets to keep you warm, and good thoughts that your electricity is soon restored.
- Sending you tasty inspiration.
- I send you soothing healing.
- I send you contagious child-like giggles and unstoppable smiles.
- Sending you pillows of prosperity to share with yourself and others.
- Sending you joy.
- I send you moments of pause so that you can remember you are loved and cared for.
- I send you relaxing moments filled with love and caring.
- I send you delicious moments filled with rare and marvelous accents that grow your heart.
- I send you calm as you step back into work from being off for a few weeks.
- I send you clocks that indicate there is plenty of time.
- I send you lush green mountain meadows splattered with wildflowers for you to rest and rejuvenate your soul.
- I send you warm, comfortable rest.
- I send you honor and respect as you navigate this wave in your life.
- I send you a warm hand to hold as you experience the array of feelings that go along with the death of your loved one.
- Sending you quiet mornings to savor nature and listen to the musings of your heart.
- I send you focus as you practice setting up new routines to support your engagement with your true self.
- Sending you bursts of energy and focus.
- I send you showers of strength as you walk your journey.
- Sending you nourishing rest and mindful body care.
- Sending you rain to nourish the earth so that the earth can nourish you.
- I send you soothing cups of hot tea, your favorite music to listen to and time for you to relax and enjoy.
- I send you chortles, giggles and warm hugs.
- I send you calm, to remember love and caring.
- I send you a warm spot of cheer and buckets of love for you to use as you wish.
- I send you over-flowing cups of love to restore your heart and soul.
- I send you the lightest hint of lilac and a handful of petals.
- I send you fresh, crisp apple bites of life to bite into everyday.
- I send you joy as I think about how delightful you are.
- I send you bright flowers to see, smell, enjoy, and nurture.
- I send you delicious caring and big love.
- Sending you the best of birthday wishes and some special binoculars for you to see all the puddles of goodness that follow you around and support you.
- I send you healing energy as you mend your heart and body.
- I send you love.
- I send you calm and gentle breezes wafting love and joy around you.
- I send you good thoughts for successful surgery, for doctors and nurses to care for you with love and honor, and for healing comfort.
- Sending you sparkly confetti in celebration of your accomplishments today.