Emotional maturity and Understanding Feelings – what does that mean? Our world is full of both goodness and social unrest. My observations of current world issues lead me to believe there is value in conscious emotional awareness – emotional maturity.
Consider events such as politics, corporate well-being, crimes against others, grief, anger, school shootings, and so on. Conscious or unconscious emotional responses have everything to do with the maturity of our leaders, children, families, and individuals.
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Emotional maturity means understanding how we experience and respond to feelings. For a simple example, imagine someone speaking harshly toward you. What is the first emotion you feel? Shock, anger, misunderstood, defensive, or something similar. When you feel the emotion, is it conscious or unconscious? For a unique example, remember someone who speaks lovingly to you. How is your immediate emotional feeling different from the first example? Caring, open, understanding, and warm. Again, when you feel the emotion, is it conscious or unconscious?
Continue ReadingToday I’m exploring what it’s like to feel worthy. The dictionary defines this word as having worth or value. We often think about this word from a perspective of a worthy deal or the worth of a specific object. I want to twist this around in terms of emotions: feeling personal worth, or allowing ourselves to feel worthy.
We are each unique, and our uniqueness brings light to different areas of our lives. This perspective creates a feeling of worthiness. Your worth is every bit as important as my own personal worth. (Alexis’s two cents!) But alas, I’m here to explore what feeling worthy means to me.
When I feel worthy, I feel like I matter. (And, don’t we all matter?) In my daily grind, when I fall short (by my definition of short), my inner critics (as SARK refers to them) are quick to call out my shortcomings. These short-circuit my feeling of worthiness. If I’m paying attention, I’ve learned how to turn those Negative Nellies into something more truthful about myself. This brings me back to feeling my personal worth.
Worthy feelings make my body hum with energy in my middle and my extremities that make my soul resonate with the life going on around me. I feel like I’m a contributing part of whatever is going on around me. I feel useful and valuable.
Truth is (according to Alexis) we all deserve to feel worthy and to take time to recognize it. It is a feeling that helps us connect with the world. Let’s get this into our dictionary of emotions and play there. Experiment with it. When you see a stranger (or an acquaintance or colleague), give yourself a moment to focus on your worth and the worth of the person you see. Feel it, and see what adventure transpires.
Our power-full feelings color our life canvas…
If you would like to explore more feelings in the Stayin’ in Touch – Positive Emotions book, click here for more information.
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Life Gifts
- I send you a warm, relaxing breeze, a comfortable hammock with sounds of water lapping on the shore.
- I send you large bundles of gratitude for being who you are, and for being connected with me.
- Sending you nourishing rest and mindful body care.
- I send you revolving hours of joy for writing about what you want to write about.
- I send you permission to be exactly how you are today.
- Sending you calm to scatter around the chaos.
- Sending you giggles.
- I send you healing, detoxifying energy as your body benefits and heals from your weekend massage.
- I send you a warm hand to hold as you experience the array of feelings that go along with the death of your loved one.
- I send you chortles, giggles, and warm hugs.
- I send you bright flowers to see, smell, enjoy, and nurture.
- I send you fresh, crisp apple bites of life to bite into everyday.
- I send you light energy to charge your healthy cells and create health.
- I send you lush green mountain meadows splattered with wildflowers for you to rest and rejuvenate your soul.
- Sending you bright colored paint for your life canvas.
- Sending you flashlights for exploring your dark places.
- I send you quiet fields of lavender to enjoy soft, quiet moments.
- I send you good thoughts for successful surgery, for doctors and nurses to care for you with love and honor, and for healing comfort.
- I send you light to illuminate the places inside you that seem dark.
- Sending you magical lenses to sharpen your focus.
- I send you delicious caring and big love.
- I send you love.
- Sending you joy.
- I send you soothing healing.
- I send you succulent sweet chocolate kisses and delightfully warm hugs.
- I send you warm blankets to snuggle with as you sip warm tea and warm up your cold body.
- I send you music to make your insides dance.
- I send you gentle care and comfort, and I hold your heart with love in mine.
- I send you clocks that indicate there is plenty of time.
- I send you fireworks of inspiration.
- I send you different flavored lollipops to quench your craving.
- I send you patience to allow new things to unfold positively for your life.
- Sending you a luxury craft to drift in a while you regroup.
- I send you appreciation for caring to make healthy choices for yourself.
- I send you contagious child-like giggles and unstoppable smiles.
- I send you whimsical moments that make you giggle out loud, whether or not you’re around people.
- I send you wide open spaces big enough for all your dreams to materialize.
- I send you a warm spot of cheer and buckets of love for you to use as you wish.
- I send you soothing cups of hot tea, your favorite music to listen to and time for you to relax and enjoy.
- I send you comfy pillows to cradle you in love and comfort.
- I send you showers of grace and peace.
- Sending you the best of birthday wishes and some special binoculars for you to see all the puddles of goodness that follow you around and support you.
- Sending you pillows of prosperity to share with yourself and others.
- Sending you willing, loving hearts and hands to help you.
- I send you courage and honor.
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